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“Your doctor not having answers doesn’t mean there aren’t answers.” – Tami Stackelhouse
One of the hardest parts of living with fibromyalgia is what happens after the diagnosis. Maybe you finally get a name for what’s happening, but then instead of clarity, you’re handed a pamphlet, a prescription with no explanation, or generic advice to manage stress and exercise more. You’re left with unanswered questions that over time can make you start believing that maybe this is just how things are have to be.
Unfortunately, most medical training doesn’t spend much time on treating fibromyalgia so even doctors who want to help may never have been taught how to do so. That doesn’t mean your situation is hopeless. It just means there are gaps in the system and you probably have to expand your support system to get the best possible outcome for your life with fibromyalgia.
In this episode, Tami discusses the common experience of feeling dismissed, unheard, or neglected by doctors, how repeated disappointment can slowly create a sense of hopelessness, why many doctors don’t have better answers for fibromyalgia despite wanting to help, the little pain management training many medical schools provide, why a doctor not having answers doesn’t mean there are no answers, the importance of becoming an expert on your own body, why the goal is has to be more than just symptom management, the value of building an fibro support team, how the Fibromyalgia Wellness Style℠ Quiz can help identify your strengths and challenges, why we need to redefine fibromyalgia awareness, and more.
Note: This episode is not meant to be medical advice. Every person and every situation is unique. The information you learn in this episode should be shared and discussed with your own healthcare providers.
Written Summary: When Your Doctor Doesn’t Have Answers for Fibromyalgia on The Fibro Compass℠
Prefer watching? Check out the video of this episode below or watch on our YouTube channel.
Links & Resources
For a deeper dive on these topics, check out the following resources:
- Hungryroot (easy meals when cooking feels like too much): One of Tami’s Favorite Things for 2024. If you want simple, healthy meals without a lot of effort, this is a great option. Get $50 off your first order of $100+ with code Q52NJ9ER at: https://www.hungryroot.com/r/Q52NJ9ER
- Want more of Tami’s favorite tools for living better with fibromyalgia? Grab the full list here.
- Find where you are in the Fibro Hierarchy — and what to focus on now.
- Fibromyalgia Wellness Style℠ Quiz – Learn your Fibromyalgia Wellness Style℠ and discover what types of pacing, support, and structure work best for your body and nervous system.
- Episode 185: Is This an Excuse… or Is It Real? The Hidden Impact of Uncertainty
- Take Back Your Life — Tami’s step-by-step approach to improving fibromyalgia symptoms over time, built around small changes, patience, and working with the body rather than against it.
- Work with a Certified Fibromyalgia Coach® — Information on how personalized coaching with someone who understands fibromyalgia can support sustainable, fibro-friendly change.
More from Tami
- For daily doses of hope, inspiration, and practical advice, join Tami on Facebook or Instagram.
- Get free copies of Tami’s books here.
- Schedule a consultation with Tami or one of her coaches through the International Fibromyalgia Coaching Institute.
Listener Shoutout
“The Fibromyalgia Wellness Style℠ quiz absolutely resonated with me. The questions sounded like all the things I would want to tell someone about myself when developing a treatment plan. I am actually crying now knowing that there is someone out there who truly understands.”
~ Kim
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